hey guys
how are we all?
as you may all know today is my birthday, but that's not what i wanna talk about, so i'm gonna be talking about the thing mentioned in the title of this post because i really feel like i have an opinion about this that needs to be expressed
here goes:
so i'm not anti-love, i'm actually pro-love, and i think it's a beautiful emotion bas i honestly feel like i don't understand what it is sometimes...i formulated an opinion about it which goes like this:
love is a temporary infatuation that gradually turns into a force of habit
so you're probably thinking this is an extremely negative way to look at it but i really feel like it's not..how long can you love someone? (i'm talking about romantic love here) is it possible to love someone forever? that infatuation really does fade away and it's not because you're a bad person but because you're human, you seek what gives you that rush, you seek what overwhelms you with happiness and love does that in the first couple of weeks, maybe month, but how about a year later, 10 years later, can you honestly say you feel the same? and don't give me that crap about "my love for you has grown every day since the day i met you" ok no, love elevates and then it reaches its peak, and it goes down, and a new feeling begins to form, and it's that feeling and sense of routine, it is part of your routine to have that individual in your life so you keep them in your life, but that excitement, that infatuation, it's gone. idk maybe i'm bluffing at the end of the day, i haven't really met someone who can prove me wrong..but i think we all deserve to meet someone who can prove that wrong, it would truly be beautiful to have such an influential presence in your life and hey, if you do, i'm really happy for you..i'm a sucker for love i love romantic movies and i think happy couples are the cutest thing and i do believe in love, i just don't believe it stays strong throughout it all as most people would claim...
oh and happy birthday to me! hehe until next time
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